Family: Father

In a family setting the father is the head of the family.  All the members of the family look upon the head of the family to lead them. He is bound to make important decisions about the family but in consultation with the rest of the family members.
The children look up to their father as a person who is supposed to protect them, care for them and provide for them what they require.
The father goes an extra mile to make ends meet for  his family, he takes pride in his family and always makes them happy.
The father showers love to his family and he is always there for them no matter what the situation.
He is the plumber, the electrician,the door fixer,the mechanic, ...he technically has a solution to all the problems in his home. He is proud when he solves his family problems and feels important to be there for them.
The father expects his children to obey his instructions and listen to him, he expects the wife to submit to him and show him respect. He in turn loves his children and treats his wife like the queen she deserves to be treated.
In our society today women are learned so are men, some women are electrical technicians, i can give an example with myself ...I can comfortably fix a broken power socket or fix the TV Aerial but in this case i think i will let my man do it..it is important that i let him play this role. We are not in competition and the moment i don't make him feel needed and appreciated in my house he will get out there and find someone who needs him and appreciates him.
The lesson here is let the man be the head of the family, don't compete with him, you will be running an unrelenting jagged race.The bible tells us that the wife should submit to her husband and the husband should love his wife.

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