The First Step

Its very scaring to take a chance when you don't know what lays ahead.You know what you want to do you have known it for a while but taking the step out your comfort zone is proving to be an impassable road.
Its never easy its not supposed to be easy but the most important thing is take that first step.
One week ago i made the first step i was scared i am still scared. I like to have  everything figured out. I like to plan ahead.I like it when i am able to anticipate what will happen that way i am always prepared.
This journey....this first step well its against all my principles..i will go through it i want to take the risk...i don't know what lays ahead but i can' t wait for the second step ahead.

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